Say No to a Sad Valentine's Day!

Valentine’s Day tips -- even if you veto Valentine’s Day:

Years ago I was a single Mom, never having anyone to spend Valentines Day with.  I was sad to think that I "HAD" to have a man in my life to make me complete, so I would "Veto" Valentines Day, and spend some time showing myself some appreciation.  Maybe you can add a few of your own tips.

1. Take yourself (and maybe a friend) our for a nice dinner.  I always avoided the exact day of Valentine's Day -- when restaurants put out special meals at inflated prices.

2. Wear comfortable shoes. I know you want to wear the sexiest ones you own but only if you’re getting dropped off at the front door of the restaurant -- not when you are having to park and walk.

3. Take your smaller handbag. The restaurants are packed and you don’t want your big work bag to knock someone off their chair as you squeeze by their table.

4. Eat some cheese and crackers, or a special starter before you leave for dinner. A growling stomach isn’t your best feature! Restaurants are notoriously packed during Valentine’s Week and long waits are not unusual even with your reservation. This will help you to stay relaxed and enjoy the conversation and time spend looking over the menu.

5. Wear your best perfume, one you do not normally wear, just a touch, it will make you feel special and mysterious.

6. Look your best, that always makes you feel your best.

7. Take some flowers to a hospital or retirement home and share the joy of Valentine's Day with those less fortunate to have a valentine.

8.  You don’t HAVE to wear red-red to stay true to Valentine’s Day. While still being in the romantic theme, you can choose shades of pink, rose, merlot, purple even red-violet. Not all shades of red are equally attractive on everybody. Wear whatever flatters you! Wear what makes YOU feel beautiful!

9.  Schedule an appointment for an updo, a mani/pedi or a facial to pamper yourself whether you’re going on a date or not!

10. Buy yourself a gift that would otherwise be bought by a “boyfriend or husband” if you’re not connected with someone. A special piece of jewelry, a scarf, some bright red gloves, a piece of art, an antique piece to display on coffee table.